MY MOTHER fought cancer for almost a decade and died at 56. She held out long enough to meet the first of her grandchildren and to hold them in her arms. But my other children will never have the chance to know her and experience how loving and gracious she was.
We often speak of “Mommy’s mommy,” and I find myself
trying to explain the illness that took her away from us. They have asked if
the same could happen to me. I have always told them not to worry, but the
truth is I carry a “faulty” gene, BRCA1, which sharply increases my risk of
developing breast cancer
and ovarian
cancer.
My doctors estimated that I had an 87 percent risk of
breast cancer and a 50 percent risk of ovarian cancer, although the risk is
different in the case of each woman.
Only a fraction of breast cancers result from an
inherited gene mutation. Those with a defect in BRCA1 have a 65
percent risk of getting it, on average.
Once I knew that this was my reality, I decided to be
proactive and to minimize the risk as much I could. I made a decision to have a
preventive
double mastectomy. I started with the breasts, as my risk of breast cancer
is higher than my risk of ovarian cancer, and the surgery is more complex.
On April 27, I finished the three months of medical
procedures that the mastectomies involved. During that time I have been able to
keep this private and to carry on with my work.
But I am writing about it now because I hope that other
women can benefit from my experience. Cancer is still a word that strikes fear
into people’s hearts, producing a deep sense of powerlessness. But today it is
possible to find out through a blood test whether you are highly susceptible to
breast and ovarian cancer, and then take action.
My own process began on Feb. 2 with a procedure known
as a “nipple delay,” which rules out disease in the breast ducts behind the
nipple and draws extra blood flow to the area. This causes some pain and a lot
of bruising, but it increases the chance of saving the nipple.
Two weeks later I had the major surgery, where the
breast tissue is removed and temporary fillers are put in place. The operation
can take eight hours. You wake up with drain tubes and expanders in your
breasts. It does feel like a scene out of a science-fiction film. But days
after surgery you can be back to a normal life.
Nine weeks later, the final surgery is completed with
the reconstruction of the breasts with an implant. There have been many
advances in this procedure in the last few years, and the results can be
beautiful.
I wanted to write this to tell other women that the
decision to have a mastectomy was not easy. But it is one I am very happy that
I made. My chances of developing breast cancer have dropped from 87 percent to
under 5 percent. I can tell my children that they don’t need to fear they will
lose me to breast cancer.
It is reassuring that they see nothing that makes them
uncomfortable. They can see my small scars and that’s it. Everything else is
just Mommy, the same as she always was. And they know that I love them and will
do anything to be with them as long as I can. On a personal note, I do not feel
any less of a woman. I feel empowered that I made a strong choice that in no
way diminishes my femininity.
I am fortunate to have a partner, Brad Pitt, who is so
loving and supportive. So to anyone who has a wife or girlfriend going through
this, know that you are a very important part of the transition. Brad was at
the Pink Lotus Breast Center,
where I was treated, for every minute of the surgeries. We managed to find
moments to laugh together. We knew this was the right thing to do for our
family and that it would bring us closer. And it has.
For any woman reading this, I hope it helps you to know
you have options. I want to encourage every woman, especially if you have a family
history of breast or ovarian cancer, to seek out the information and medical
experts who can help you through this aspect of your life, and to make your own
informed choices.
I acknowledge that there are many wonderful holistic
doctors working on alternatives to surgery. My own regimen will be posted in
due course on the Web site of the Pink Lotus Breast Center. I hope that this
will be helpful to other women.
Breast cancer
alone kills some 458,000 people each year, according to the World Health
Organization, mainly in low- and middle-income countries. It has got to be a
priority to ensure that more women can access gene testing and lifesaving
preventive treatment, whatever their means and background, wherever they live.
The cost of testing for BRCA1 and BRCA2, at more than $3,000 in the United
States, remains an obstacle for many women.
I choose not to keep my story private because there are
many women who do not know that they might be living under the shadow of
cancer. It is my hope that they, too, will be able to get gene tested, and that
if they have a high risk they, too, will know that they have strong options.
Life comes with many challenges. The ones that should
not scare us are the ones we can take on and take control of.
Angelina Jolie is an actress and director.I am wishing her all the best.

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